Last minute

• Make sure you have serving ware clean, marked with a sticky note, and ready to go.
• Have club soda on hand for any sill hazards.
• Have at least 5 appetizer servings fore each guest.
• One side dish for every four guests.
• One serving of dessert for each guest.
• Two alcoholic drinks per guest.
• Three non alcoholic drinks per guest.
• Party favors wrapped and ready at the door for goodbyes! 

And don't forget cookies and milk for the big guy as well as a carrot or two for his reindeer. Merry Christmas.

Cocktail Glass Charms

I came across a GREAT idea for beverage glass charms for your parties to go along with your signature cocktails... We don't always have enough charms for those pretty glasses for the party, but this idea is way inexpensive and easy to pick up on your next errand run. Silly Bands! Get the littler ones to put on the stems of the glasses you're using. Match them to your party theme - they come in all kinds of styles! I assure you will have a conversation piece too. 

Signature Cocktails

I have figured out a great way to save some moola when hosting parties... Signature Cocktails! Instead of having a completely stocked bar at your next party, come up with a signature cocktail. This keeps your liquor shopping list to a minimal. Come up with something that represents you - the hostess! I assure you that you'll be the talk of the town after your party!

Cloth Candy Canes

This is a craft that needs some drying time - maybe hours. But on a frigid day it sure keeps the kids busy making a cute decoration for the holidays. You will need:

• 3x12" strips of cotton fabric (3 per project - prints and differnt colors make the best choices)
• pipe cleaners (3 per project)
• waxed paper
• white glue
• small paint brushes

1. One at a time, lay each fabric strip - print side down - on waxed paper-covered surface and using the paint brush to coat with a thin layer of glue.
2. Place a pipe cleaner along one long edge and roll the fabric around it as tight as possible. Smooth down the outer edge.
3. Make three pipe cleaners like this for a single project.
4. Pinch together the tops of three wrapped pipe cleaners and tightly twist them into a spiral, bending the top over into a cane shape.
5. Set cane in a short drinking glass to dry ( could take several hours).
6. Neaten the ends of teh pipe cleaner canes with wire cutters.

One wintery weekend several years ago, I had a whole Christmas tree full of these and popcorn garlands. It turned out great! I kept them and use them as centerpieces some years or place setting markers. The canes look like the fruity tootie variety of candy canes you buy at the grocery store. I assure you will enjoy spending the time on this craft.

Hot Chocolate Cones

I love making these to leave at neighbors who have shoveled my sidewalk, send to school for teachers on delayed start days, and even for the mailman! These treats are easy to make. You will need:

• 3/4 cups cocoa mix
• 2 - 6x12 inch cone shaped cellophane bags (Michael's or Jo-Ann's in the candymaking section)
• 2 clear rubber bands (hair accessories section @ Target or Walmart)
• 1/4 cup mini chocoate chips
• 3/4 cup mini marshmellows
• large red gumdrops

1. Pour cocoa mix into one cellophane bag and secure with rubberband.
2. Slide this into the second cellophane bag.
3. Layer the chocolate chips and mini marshmallows and top with one red gumdrop.
4. Secure the bag with a rubberband.

I tie off mine with some pretty satin ribbon and a homemade gift tag. Each bag you make should make 4 servings and keep the recipient warm and toasty! I have used this treat for party favors at holiday get togethers and open houses. I have also used them as place setting markers for big dinner parties and classroom party crafts. I assure you the folks you give this treat to will appreciate it. Although you may want to keep a stash for the neighborhood kiddos who will be begging to shovel your sidewalk on snowy mornings!

Kid Christmas Party Themes

Still searching for a theme for the class Christmas party? Remember what makes Christmas so magical: togetherness and tradition. The themed list below will bring everyone together for a fun event and create lasting memories for the little ones.

Gingerbread House Making

"Raise the roof" … with a gingerbread house-making party.
For young children, pre-build small houses out of graham crackers. The best “glue” to hold the walls together is royal icing, but I like to use pre-made frosting. If it's too warm, though, the house will fall apart.
Set out an array of candies and give each child a plastic sandwich bag filled with icing, tied off and with a small hole poked in one corner. Show them some basic for decorating the houses, i.e., using shredded coconut as snow, peppermint pathways or Lifesaver windows.
For favors, give aprons or gingerbread cookies in cellophane bags.
If you have teens and need to kick this theme up a notch, have the kids design and bake their house parts ahead of time and bring them to the party. Give everyone an hour to assemble and decorate their houses and invite some neighbor judges over to choose the best one. The teens’ creativity might surprise you.

Kids' Christmas Party Cookie Exchange

Cookie making is a fun Christmas tradition, but who has time to make more than two or three kinds? Cookie exchange to the rescue!
Ask guests to bring two dozen of the same type of cookie to the party, plus enough copies of the recipe for each attendee. Display the cookies on a table, with the recipe cards and the child’s name next to each tray.
Then, each child loads up an empty plate with two of each type of cookie. While making their way around the table, the children also should pick up a copy of each recipe. Set up a station where the kids can then decorate covers and bind the recipes into small cookbooks as a memento of the party.

Crafty Christmas

It wasn’t all that long ago that Christmas gifts were made, not purchased. Bring back the tradition by hosting a Christmas craft party.
You could focus your ornaments only and set up three different stations where the children can make different decorations for the tree. Or have them undertake other projects like calendars or decorating candles with sequins. The kids also could make wrapping paper or cards at the party.
The crafts should be enough of a favor, but you could also send these creative kids home with a blank artist’s notebook and a set of Crayons or drawing pencils.

Party with a Purpose

It’s natural for kids to associate Christmas with receiving presents, but help them find the deeper meaning by reaching out to those who are less fortunate.
Throw a party with a purpose either by focusing on a charitable theme or simply asking guests to bring nonperishable food, winter coats or other donations to a regular Christmas bash. You could decorate the main table with a large stack of canned goods shaped like a tree, trim a tree with scarves as garland or hang strings of mittens above every doorway.

A Caroling We Go

A night of Christmas caroling can be cold, but it sure warms the heart. And using this theme as a classroom party offers an opportunity to share the holiday spirit with others.
Hand out songbooks you’ve made with copies of some favorite carols and gather everyone around the piano or stereo to practice. Stick to two or three short songs they can easily memorize. "Bundle up," hand everyone a candlestick or flashlight and then spread holiday cheer by singing door to door. Have the kids take turns presenting neighbors with a plate of cookies before moving onto the next classroom. Someone should stay back in the classroom to make hot cider, hot cocoa and other warm treats to await the carolers when they return.

Rock Around the Christmas Tree

Break from tradition with a Rock ‘n’ Roll kids' Christmas party.
Spray the kids’ hair with temporary red and green dye when they arrive (with parental permission, of course) and brand everyone with some holiday tatoos. Push aside the desks, hang a disco ball and let the kids dance to holiday songs by their favorite artists. If you’re up for it, rent a karaoke machine.
When it comes to food, what rock star doesn’t love pizza? Tie yours to Christmas by making mini pizzas in holiday shapes. To do this, cut the dough with cookie cutters before adding the toppings. For favors, send everyone home with a music-themed tree ornament, such as an electric guitar or drum set, or a CD burned with some of the Christmas songs.

Polar Express P.J. Party

Whether it’s the book by Chris Van Allsburg or the movie starring Tom Hanks, The Polar Express is a beloved Christmas story.
On invitations made to look like train tickets, invite kids to come to school dressed in pajamas. Serve hot chocolate (a nod to a particular scene from the story) and a train-shaped cake.
Read the book or show the movie, then send everyone home with a jingle bell, a reference to how the boy in The Polar Express finally believes Santa Claus is real.

Christmas Around the World

Give your kids’ Christmas party an international theme by hosting a Christmas-around-the-world party.
Assign a different country to each child, being sure to include Turkey, the homeland of Saint Nicholas, Germany, which is partially credited for the tradition of decorating a tree, and Mexico, where families hold neighborhood posadas. Research how other cultures celebrate Christmas, too.
Ask everyone to bring a side dish that represents the culture assigned to them, sing songs that tie to the countries, such as Stille Nacht (Silent Night) in German, and teach the kids to say, "Merry Christmas," in different languages.

Make sure you coordinate with the classroom teacher regarding "rules" for holiday parties at your child's school. I especially love the Party with a Purpose, but tend to host many Polar Express PJ parties myself. The holidays are magical especially with children involved. I assure you will have a merry heart planning any of these themes whether for classrooms or even in your home.

Christmas Tree Trimming Party

A festive and casual Christmas Tree Trimming Party is a great holiday season party theme. It can be planned as an Open House where your guests arrive to find a naked tree and a house that is not quite ready for holidays. If you're lucky, at the party's end, your tree will be fully dressed and ready to welcome Father Christmas. So before your guests arrive, purchase your tree and set it up in its stand - and make sure have a plan for food!

The party can be held any time of the day. For a weekend afternoon gathering, the simplest food option is to have plates of cookies and sweets with festive holiday drinks. Or invite guests to come after dinner for wine and cheese. A weekend brunch is a relaxing option or early supper buffets are an heartier option. It will all depend on how much cooking you will want to do, but serve your food buffet style, since this will be an active party with your guests moving around decorating, or at least admiring, your tree. 

Have ornaments and decorations available for guests to hang on nearby tables in decorative bowls or baskets. Leave the most precious ones for later for safety. If you have a fireplace, light a fire in the hearth and play Christmas carols as background music. If you have a piano, place Christmas sheet music on it in case any of your guests feel inspired to play. Set up a table for guests to make their own ornaments to take home as a party favor. Jo-Ann's and Michael's have kits available. You could set up bowls of popcorn and cranberries in cozy corners of your home for guests to string as decorations for your tree or ribbon scraps and staplers. It's a great way for guests who don't know one another well to interact.

If nothing else you will have helped your friends to forget, at least momentarily, their seasonal chores, and to remember the fun of the holiday season. I assure you will be left with holiday cheer and a little less decorating to do yourself.

Cookie Exchange

'Tis the season of eating! Many holiday traditions includes baking Christmas cookies. It can be time consuming if you're anything like me where you plan to bring a variety for an attractive cookie tray for holiday parties. But the Cookie Exchange Party is the solution to keep the fun in the baking and minimize the time pressure.

To host a cookie exchange party, invite friends who also enjoy holiday baking to bring a large batch of one type of cookie to your home. You could expand the definition of the party to include other treats - home made candy, chocolate covered pretzels, or other festive sweets. During the party, everyone shares the treats, giving everyone a variety, but only requires baking one recipe. Ask everyone bring an extra dozen for the party table, and the you have instant refreshments to serve to guests!

10 Tips for a Great Cookie Exchange

1. Ask each guest to bring either a dozen cookies for each attendee, plus a dozen for the party.
2. Have plastic storage bags, holiday themed tins or paper plates and foil just in case guests forget to bring a container for transporting their cookies home. * Reminder: store each cookie variety in separate containers until serving. Mixed cookie varieties lose their flavor and texture.
3. Ask guests to bring copies of their recipe to share. 
4. Have a large table for guests to set out their cookies with a festive cloth. have baskets, trays or plates on the table for each guest to place their contributions.
5. Place an extra platter on the table for the cookies that will be enjoyed during the party.
6. Play Christmas music throughout the gathering.
7. Have some festive decorations in the party room.
8. A cookie exchange can be held any time of the day.
9. Serve refreshments that can be prepared in advance and reheated at the party.
10. Serve at least one holiday beverage such as egg nog or hot mulled cider along with coffee, tea, juices and, of course, milk!

Family Circle magazine November issue has a variety of recipes perfect for a cookie exchange party. Although, I recommend a cookie recipe that is a family tradition to share. In any case, I assure  you will have some great looking trays and recipes to take to other holiday parties.

Holiday Greetings

Whether you send photo cards, store bought cards, letters or homemade cards, you better get going if you want them to arrive by the holidays. Although I have friends that send them on purpose to arrive in time for New Year's Day along with that theme. In years past I have done store bought cards and I then graduated into hand-made cards to send a little bit of me. That got harder each year as we had children and the list of friends continued to grow. I branched off into "the holiday letter" - a tricky piece of territory in my family. I have heard for many, many years how some letters are so boring or "braggy" or simply just have ages and dates changed from my mother I knew I would have to come up with something good. I searched the Internet to see what ideas were out there and come up with a short multiple choice quiz - the teacher in me was shining through! I wrote 10 questions two about each individual family member and two about big news from the year. It was just enough to share about our past year and brag about my kids. The next year I found a story where you could fill in the blanks to personalize it for your family. It turned out brilliantly and quite entertaining if I say so myself. Another year I came up with a crossword puzzle - I used I web site I had in the past for a classroom project for social studies - you just can't get the teacher out of me. last year had to be the most fun for me. My son decided he wanted to celebrate Hanukkah - we're not Jewish by the way. I came up with a newspaper themed letter. The headline was about Hanukkah because I knew it would flip a few people out. In the lead article I explained what was going on with holiday celebrations at our house including my 7 year old son's fascination with Hanukkah. I included articles about sports the kids were involved in - my favorite was the piece I wrote about my son's fencing lessons and him feeling like a pincushion - "money matters" because of my husband's job, and education because my daughter had started middle school that year.I had fun with it and couldn't stop laughing as I was writing it. The best part of these letters is the kudos - if you will - we get after the holidays. People really do call to catch up and nurture relationships. The downside is that I have to come with and even better idea the next year! How ever you send your holiday cards this year, do it with cheer in your heart. I assure you will enjoy the task even more.

Okay Room Moms - it's time to start planning for the winter classroom party! It will be here in about three weeks so gather your troops and hit it here with a suggested letter to classroom parents regarding what the party will look like and what your needs are to be a success for the kiddos. Send it to school Monday for their backpacks.

Thank you for signing up for the class party needs. You are very generous! Here is your friendly Winter Class Party update:

Winter Celebration Friday, December 16@ 12:15 - 1:15 p.m.

Parent Helpers:  ? , ? ,  and ? will take photographs

The plan for the Winter Celebration look like: 2 crafty activities - snowflake frames (Popsicle sticks, snowflakes foam shapes, and ribbon) and pretzel and string cheese snowflakes (edible treat); estimation jar (holiday M&M's); book exchange (kiddos will bring a new or gently used book wrapped to shuffle around the circle during a read aloud); and science "experiment" - lifting an ice cube with a string (cups, water, string, ice cubes, salt). I have also printed off jokes and riddles for the kids to read aloud if activities run fast than I anticipate. The kiddos will eat something sweet (cookies or brownies), something healthy (string cheese and pretzels), and have some juice throughout the party.

Treats and Supplies:

Cookies/ brownies (1 dozen each)                                           ? , ?,  and ?
Stick pretzels (1 large bag)                                                      ? and ?
String cheese                                                                         ?
Holiday M&M's (1 large bag)                                                     ?

Popsicle sticks                                                                       ?
holiday foam shapes                                                               ? and ?
1 bolt 1/2 " wide ribbon                                                          ? and ?
plastic cups                                                                            ?
ice cubes                                                                               ?
string                                                                                     ?

The number of question marks indicates how many people you may need to supply these items. I hope this sparks some ideas for you. Remember simple is best and I assure you success. Come back to find more classroom activity ideas.

Easy Oreo Truffles

Happy Thanksgiving! Get that turkey in the oven!

Found this recipe @ http://www.fabulousfoods.com/ and I tried them out -they're FANTASTIC and SO easy! You will need:

• 1 package Oreo cookies
• 1 - 8 oz. package cream cheese
• 2 packages semi sweet chocolate chips

1. Grind up cookies in a food processor (I use my blender) until they're in fine crumbs.
2. Add cream cheese to the cookie crumbs and blend until combined.
3. Place the mixture in the freezer for 10 minutes.
4. Roll combined mixture into 1 - 1/2 inch balls and place on parchment-lined cookie sheet.
5. Put back into freezer (may be made 1 week ahead of time at this point).
6. Melt chocolate chips in microwave on low or double boiler.
7. Dip frozen balls into chocolate and put back on parchment.
8. Decorate with chopped nuts,sprinkles, coconut, Heath bar bits, or extra cookie crumbs before the chocolate dries.
9. Freeze until ready to serve.

The kids loved them, my in-laws loved them, the neighbors loved them. I assure you will have the same success as I.

24 hours and counting

I plan to bake and prepare all the desserts today. The turkey will be thoroughy thawed by tomorrow as I took it out of the freezer Monday morning and transferred to the refrigerator. My 12 year old daughter will be setting the table inbetween dessert projects; so I found a great picture guide in Family Circle magazine this month. It's on page 78. I hope you enjoy your day of preparations as much as I will!

Easy Snack Food for the Holiday

I found some red pistachios and green pepitas (pumpkin seeds) to make some festive snack bowls to pass around with drinks. Use a white bowl and fill one side with the red and the other green. I use a piece of paper to divide the bowl and it looks GREAT!

Kid Activity

We usually take out the tree on Thanksgiving as part of the day. Sometimes, because so many people are at the house, I won't take out any of our ornaments for fear of breakage. I do, however, always offer some kind of decorating activity for the kids. I want them to  bond with each other and stay occupied so grown-ups can talk.

In past years I have set out squares of aluminum foil to make chain rings. It doesn't require adult supervision - no glue, scissors or sparkles to clean up later. I buy the pre-cut squares like delis use and find a spot for the kids to work out of party traffic areas.

I have also done ribbon chains. This requires prep work of cutting up the ribbon and perhaps some adult supervision because I let them use a stapler. The kids use up all my scraps and create a beautiful, colorful chain to hang on the tree! Other items that work are pipe cleaners and paper strips. I let the grown-ups do the popcorn and cranberries because of the needles, but always offer a bowl full of thimbles!

Cookie Trees

I save the gingerbread house construction for Christmas and create Cookie Trees for Thanksgiving. It becomes an activity even the youngest of hands can help with. The process of building may take up to an hour, but well worth it. You will need:

• 2 16 ounce boxes confectioners' sugar
• 6 egg whites
• 3 Styrofoam cones, ranging in height from 7 inches to 12 inches
• 4 12 ounce boxes vanilla wafers or other small, flat cookies

1. Beat all but 1/4 cup of the sugar with the egg whites until stiff.
2. Spread a thin layer of the frosting on a cone (one cone at a time)
3. Working from the bottom up, overlap cookies, using more frosting as necessary.
4. Repeat for the other 2 cones.
5. Use a small sieve to dust the trees with the remaining sugar.

Straight pins can be used to hold the cookies in place while the frosting dries. The trees look pretty classy on the dining room table as a centerpiece. Sometimes I forget to remove them so I buy pins that have colored ends to look like ornaments.

Food!

When the holidays roll in, from Halloween to New Years, we seem to find ourselves faced with FOOD every where we turn. I have hypothyroid and find it harder and harder to keep the weight off so I'd like to share a few of my tips to avoid over-doing-it:

1. Don't skip breakfast. I have some lean protein and high fiber carbohydrates - no more than 350 calories total.
2. Have a small morning snack. I usually have my fruit for a morning snack.
3. Decide what you going to eat. I know who's hosting for the holiday meal and all the "traditional" dishes that will most likely be served; so I know what I really want to eat and what I could choose to skip. I always think about serving size too.
4. Schedule an after dinner walk. Since I have kids who are constantly on the go, this is easy for me. The neighbors usually have holiday lights and decorations up so a 20 minute causal stroll gives us all a chance to spread out a little.
5. Skip the alcohol. This is a challenge for me - especially if we go to my in-laws! I will sip club soda with a lime because it looks like a cocktail. Definitely a mind trick.

I hope these help you too.

Disneyfamily.com

Once again http://www.disneyfamily.com/ has some amazing crafts and recipes for the Thanksgiving holiday. Lots of ideas for kids' table! Check it out.

Decorating "Wishes"

Sometimes we only see some of our extended family once or twice a year - around the holidays. Here is a holiday decorating idea that will keep them close to you each day you have this hung in your home... You will need:

• one grapevine (twig) wreath (found @ Michael's or Jo-Ann's craft stores)
• red Sharpies or markers
• white cardstock cut into 2x3 sizes
• 1 yard of beautiful, bold, wide green ribbon (for hanging the wreath)

1. Hang the twig wreath in a spot where arriving or departing guests can't miss it.
2. Set the markers and cards under or next to it on a writing friendly surface.
3. Post a little sign asking guests to write or draw a greeting or holiday wish along with their name and slip into wreath.

You will have a one of a kind wreath to enjoy throughout the holidays! I have tried this with holiday cards sent through the mail, but because of the multitude or colors and sizes of cards it never turns out quite the way I had planned. I have also tried it with the photo cards sent as holiday greetings - I end up mounting them on cardstock, turning it into a bigger project and still unhappy with the outcome because of the colors... I use this simple color blocking idea of red on white with the bold green ribbon because it's so pleasing to the eye.

Sometimes it's our friends we only see once or twice a year. Whoever you choose to participate in this activity I assure you will enjoy the greetings and wishes.

Decorating for the Holidays

I love decorating in stages for the holidays. Getting ready for Thanksgiving is easy with evergreens. Take any fresh evergreens and hang them around doorways and windows inside your home for your open house or Thanksgiving. It will encourage your guests to venture into different rooms improving your party's flow. I like to purchase the white-pine garlands when I can. They have long, soft needles and really full boughs. Hanging the fresh evergreens are easy with just a hammer and a couple of nails to create a swag over the doorway too. 

Open House Menu

This is just one menu idea. I like it because it sounds fancy but is pretty easy.

THE MENU - serves 30

Supper

• Pepitas and Pistachios
• Warm Rosemary Olives
• Smoked Salmon with Creme Fraiche Sauce on Shallot Toasts
• Cheese Platter
• Frisee, Bacon, and Goat-Cheese Salad
• Potato-Apple Gratin
• Grilled Sausages with Pickled Onions ans Assorted Mustards

Dessert

• Coconut Snowballs
• Magic Cocoa
• Chocolate Ganache Sandwiches

Drinks

• Juices
• Still and Sparking waters
• Red and white wine

I originally found it in Real Simple magazine. Let me know if you need any of the recipes.